“What do you mean, kicked out of school?” I said.
“Sam is a bad kid. His Mommy came to get him because he is always in trouble. And he’s not allowed to come back to play with us.”
So, this conversation is intriguing to me. One, because I have been in the company of Sam. To me he always seemed like a kid just wanting attention. But as I witnessed over the course of the last couple months, his behavior was pretty bad every time I’ve been in the same room (which is like 1/20th of the school day… imagine what its like the other 98% of the day).
He often would push David down in my presence, with no reason. My husband said that 9 times out of 10 when he picks up David, Sam would knock David’s lunchbox out of my husband’s hand for sport. If David reached for his coat hanging up under his cubby, Sam would body slam him.
Once I corrected Sam (a week or so ago), saying, “That’s not nice Sam, there is no reason to do that to David”. I’ve never done that before, but I felt like my son was Sam’s favorite punching bag… until I started talking to other parents and finding out that Sam’s target isn’t just us, it’s everyone and anyone.
I assume that the school picked up on this and the result is Sam is gone… for now. I don’t know the specifics.
It feels very odd to think that a 4 year old can be expelled from a preschool. I wonder how that conversation ensues…
…well, your kid is a blight on this classroom, so you are outta here…..?
Where do you go as a parent if you are told your child is out of hand? Does anyone follow up to ensure he gets assistance (if he needs it)?
It just seems so crazy to me.
And for my son, well, he has just been introduced to the ugly side of preschool. And, it won’t be the last time I fear.